feat: add Connect (gRPC over HTTP/JSON) support

Connect integration:
- Buf Connect codegen added to buf.gen.yaml
- Connect handler wraps gRPC server
- Serves on same port as WebSocket (:8080)
- HTTP/2 with h2c for cleartext HTTP/2

Now serving THREE protocols:
1. gRPC (native) on :50051 - binary, high performance
2. Connect on :8080/nostr.v1.NostrRelay/* - HTTP/JSON, browser compatible
3. WebSocket on :8080/ - Nostr standard protocol

All three protocols share:
- Same storage layer
- Same subscription manager
- Same validation logic

Browser-friendly! Call gRPC methods with fetch() or curl.

1 files changed, 10 insertions, 0 deletions

diff --git a/go.sum b/go.sum
index 6d5fa95..79c1ebe 100644
--- a/go.sum
+++ b/go.sum
@@ -1,3 +1,5 @@
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