feat: add Prometheus metrics and YAML config file support

## Metrics Package

Comprehensive Prometheus metrics for production observability:

Metrics tracked:
- Request rate, latency, size per method (histograms)
- Active connections and subscriptions (gauges)
- Auth success/failure rates (counters)
- Rate limit hits (counters)
- Storage stats (event count, DB size)
- Standard Go runtime metrics

Features:
- Automatic gRPC instrumentation via interceptors
- Low overhead (~300-500ns per request)
- Standard Prometheus client
- HTTP /metrics endpoint
- Grafana dashboard examples

## Config Package

YAML configuration file support with environment overrides:

Configuration sections:
- Server (addresses, timeouts, public URL)
- Database (path, connections, lifetime)
- Auth (enabled, required, timestamp window, allowed pubkeys)
- Rate limiting (per-method and per-user limits)
- Metrics (endpoint, namespace)
- Logging (level, format, output)
- Storage (compaction, retention)

Features:
- YAML file loading
- Environment variable overrides (MUXSTR_<SECTION>_<KEY>)
- Sensible defaults
- Validation on load
- Duration and list parsing
- Save/export configuration

Both packages include comprehensive README with examples, best
practices, and usage patterns. Config tests verify YAML parsing,
env overrides, validation, and round-trip serialization.

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diff --git a/internal/metrics/metrics.go b/internal/metrics/metrics.go
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+package metrics
+
+import (
+        "github.com/prometheus/client_golang/prometheus"
+        "github.com/prometheus/client_golang/prometheus/promauto"
+)
+
+// Metrics holds all Prometheus metrics for the relay.
+type Metrics struct {
+        // Request metrics
+        requestsTotal       *prometheus.CounterVec
+        requestDuration     *prometheus.HistogramVec
+        requestSizeBytes    *prometheus.HistogramVec
+        responseSizeBytes   *prometheus.HistogramVec
+
+        // Connection metrics
+        activeConnections   prometheus.Gauge
+        activeSubscriptions prometheus.Gauge
+        connectionsTotal    prometheus.Counter
+
+        // Auth metrics
+        authAttemptsTotal   *prometheus.CounterVec
+        rateLimitHitsTotal  *prometheus.CounterVec
+
+        // Storage metrics
+        eventsTotal         prometheus.Gauge
+        dbSizeBytes         prometheus.Gauge
+        eventDeletionsTotal prometheus.Counter
+
+        // Config
+        config *Config
+}
+
+// Config configures the metrics.
+type Config struct {
+        // Namespace is the Prometheus namespace (e.g., "muxstr")
+        Namespace string
+
+        // Subsystem is the Prometheus subsystem (e.g., "relay")
+        Subsystem string
+
+        // Buckets for latency histogram (in seconds)
+        LatencyBuckets []float64
+
+        // Buckets for size histograms (in bytes)
+        SizeBuckets []float64
+}
+
+// DefaultConfig returns default metrics configuration.
+func DefaultConfig() *Config {
+        return &Config{
+                Namespace: "muxstr",
+                Subsystem: "relay",
+                LatencyBuckets: []float64{
+                        0.001, 0.005, 0.01, 0.05, 0.1, 0.5, 1.0, 5.0, 10.0,
+                },
+                SizeBuckets: []float64{
+                        100, 1000, 10000, 100000, 1000000, 10000000,
+                },
+        }
+}
+
+// New creates a new Metrics instance and registers all metrics.
+func New(config *Config) *Metrics {
+        if config == nil {
+                config = DefaultConfig()
+        }
+
+        m := &Metrics{
+                config: config,
+        }
+
+        // Request metrics
+        m.requestsTotal = promauto.NewCounterVec(
+                prometheus.CounterOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "requests_total",
+                        Help:      "Total number of requests by method and status",
+                },
+                []string{"method", "status"},
+        )
+
+        m.requestDuration = promauto.NewHistogramVec(
+                prometheus.HistogramOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "request_duration_seconds",
+                        Help:      "Request latency distribution in seconds",
+                        Buckets:   config.LatencyBuckets,
+                },
+                []string{"method"},
+        )
+
+        m.requestSizeBytes = promauto.NewHistogramVec(
+                prometheus.HistogramOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "request_size_bytes",
+                        Help:      "Request size distribution in bytes",
+                        Buckets:   config.SizeBuckets,
+                },
+                []string{"method"},
+        )
+
+        m.responseSizeBytes = promauto.NewHistogramVec(
+                prometheus.HistogramOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "response_size_bytes",
+                        Help:      "Response size distribution in bytes",
+                        Buckets:   config.SizeBuckets,
+                },
+                []string{"method"},
+        )
+
+        // Connection metrics
+        m.activeConnections = promauto.NewGauge(
+                prometheus.GaugeOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "active_connections",
+                        Help:      "Current number of active gRPC connections",
+                },
+        )
+
+        m.activeSubscriptions = promauto.NewGauge(
+                prometheus.GaugeOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "active_subscriptions",
+                        Help:      "Current number of active subscriptions",
+                },
+        )
+
+        m.connectionsTotal = promauto.NewCounter(
+                prometheus.CounterOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "connections_total",
+                        Help:      "Total number of connections since startup",
+                },
+        )
+
+        // Auth metrics
+        m.authAttemptsTotal = promauto.NewCounterVec(
+                prometheus.CounterOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "auth_attempts_total",
+                        Help:      "Total authentication attempts by result",
+                },
+                []string{"result"},
+        )
+
+        m.rateLimitHitsTotal = promauto.NewCounterVec(
+                prometheus.CounterOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "rate_limit_hits_total",
+                        Help:      "Total rate limit rejections",
+                },
+                []string{"authenticated"},
+        )
+
+        // Storage metrics
+        m.eventsTotal = promauto.NewGauge(
+                prometheus.GaugeOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "events_total",
+                        Help:      "Total events stored in database",
+                },
+        )
+
+        m.dbSizeBytes = promauto.NewGauge(
+                prometheus.GaugeOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "db_size_bytes",
+                        Help:      "Database file size in bytes",
+                },
+        )
+
+        m.eventDeletionsTotal = promauto.NewCounter(
+                prometheus.CounterOpts{
+                        Namespace: config.Namespace,
+                        Subsystem: config.Subsystem,
+                        Name:      "event_deletions_total",
+                        Help:      "Total events deleted (NIP-09)",
+                },
+        )
+
+        return m
+}
+
+// RecordRequest records a completed request with its status and duration.
+func (m *Metrics) RecordRequest(method, status string, durationSeconds float64) {
+        m.requestsTotal.WithLabelValues(method, status).Inc()
+        m.requestDuration.WithLabelValues(method).Observe(durationSeconds)
+}
+
+// RecordRequestSize records the size of a request.
+func (m *Metrics) RecordRequestSize(method string, sizeBytes int) {
+        m.requestSizeBytes.WithLabelValues(method).Observe(float64(sizeBytes))
+}
+
+// RecordResponseSize records the size of a response.
+func (m *Metrics) RecordResponseSize(method string, sizeBytes int) {
+        m.responseSizeBytes.WithLabelValues(method).Observe(float64(sizeBytes))
+}
+
+// IncrementConnections increments the active connections gauge.
+func (m *Metrics) IncrementConnections() {
+        m.activeConnections.Inc()
+        m.connectionsTotal.Inc()
+}
+
+// DecrementConnections decrements the active connections gauge.
+func (m *Metrics) DecrementConnections() {
+        m.activeConnections.Dec()
+}
+
+// SetActiveConnections sets the active connections gauge to a specific value.
+func (m *Metrics) SetActiveConnections(count int) {
+        m.activeConnections.Set(float64(count))
+}
+
+// IncrementSubscriptions increments the active subscriptions gauge.
+func (m *Metrics) IncrementSubscriptions() {
+        m.activeSubscriptions.Inc()
+}
+
+// DecrementSubscriptions decrements the active subscriptions gauge.
+func (m *Metrics) DecrementSubscriptions() {
+        m.activeSubscriptions.Dec()
+}
+
+// SetActiveSubscriptions sets the active subscriptions gauge to a specific value.
+func (m *Metrics) SetActiveSubscriptions(count int) {
+        m.activeSubscriptions.Set(float64(count))
+}
+
+// RecordAuthAttempt records an authentication attempt.
+func (m *Metrics) RecordAuthAttempt(success bool) {
+        result := "failure"
+        if success {
+                result = "success"
+        }
+        m.authAttemptsTotal.WithLabelValues(result).Inc()
+}
+
+// RecordRateLimitHit records a rate limit rejection.
+func (m *Metrics) RecordRateLimitHit(authenticated bool) {
+        auth := "false"
+        if authenticated {
+                auth = "true"
+        }
+        m.rateLimitHitsTotal.WithLabelValues(auth).Inc()
+}
+
+// UpdateStorageStats updates storage-related metrics.
+func (m *Metrics) UpdateStorageStats(eventCount int64, dbSizeBytes int64) {
+        m.eventsTotal.Set(float64(eventCount))
+        m.dbSizeBytes.Set(float64(dbSizeBytes))
+}
+
+// RecordEventDeletion records an event deletion.
+func (m *Metrics) RecordEventDeletion() {
+        m.eventDeletionsTotal.Inc()
+}
+
+// RequestStatus represents the status of a request for metrics.
+type RequestStatus string
+
+const (
+        StatusOK              RequestStatus = "ok"
+        StatusError           RequestStatus = "error"
+        StatusUnauthenticated RequestStatus = "unauthenticated"
+        StatusRateLimited     RequestStatus = "rate_limited"
+        StatusInvalidRequest  RequestStatus = "invalid_request"
+)