feat: implement NIP-09 (deletions) and NIP-11 (relay info)

NIP-11 (Relay Information Document):
- Serves relay metadata at GET / with Accept: application/nostr+json
- Returns name, description, supported NIPs, limitations
- CORS headers for browser compatibility

NIP-09 (Event Deletion):
- Kind 5 events delete events referenced in 'e' tags
- Only authors can delete their own events
- Soft delete (marks deleted=1)
- Records deletion in deletions table
- Works across all protocols (gRPC, Connect, WebSocket)

Fixed deletions schema:
- deleted_event_id as PRIMARY KEY (not deletion_event_id)
- Allows one deletion event to delete multiple events

3 new tests, 44 total tests passing

Supported NIPs now: 1, 9, 11

1 files changed, 70 insertions, 0 deletions

diff --git a/internal/storage/deletions.go b/internal/storage/deletions.go
new file mode 100644
index 0000000..1a07e3c
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+++ b/internal/storage/deletions.go
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+package storage
+
+import (
+        "context"
+        "fmt"
+
+        pb "northwest.io/nostr-grpc/api/nostr/v1"
+)
+
+const KindDeletion = 5
+
+func (s *Storage) ProcessDeletion(ctx context.Context, deletionEvent *pb.Event) error {
+        if deletionEvent.Kind != KindDeletion {
+                return fmt.Errorf("not a deletion event")
+        }
+
+        var eventIDsToDelete []string
+        for _, tag := range deletionEvent.Tags {
+                if len(tag.Values) >= 2 && tag.Values[0] == "e" {
+                        eventIDsToDelete = append(eventIDsToDelete, tag.Values[1])
+                }
+        }
+
+        if len(eventIDsToDelete) == 0 {
+                return nil
+        }
+
+        tx, err := s.db.BeginTx(ctx, nil)
+        if err != nil {
+                return fmt.Errorf("failed to begin transaction: %w", err)
+        }
+        defer tx.Rollback()
+
+        for _, eventID := range eventIDsToDelete {
+                var eventPubkey string
+                err := tx.QueryRowContext(ctx,
+                        "SELECT pubkey FROM events WHERE id = ? AND deleted = 0",
+                        eventID,
+                ).Scan(&eventPubkey)
+
+                if err != nil {
+                        continue
+                }
+
+                if eventPubkey != deletionEvent.Pubkey {
+                        continue
+                }
+
+                _, err = tx.ExecContext(ctx,
+                        "UPDATE events SET deleted = 1 WHERE id = ?",
+                        eventID,
+                )
+                if err != nil {
+                        return fmt.Errorf("failed to mark event as deleted: %w", err)
+                }
+
+                _, err = tx.ExecContext(ctx,
+                        "INSERT OR IGNORE INTO deletions (deleted_event_id, deletion_event_id, pubkey, created_at) VALUES (?, ?, ?, ?)",
+                        eventID,
+                        deletionEvent.Id,
+                        deletionEvent.Pubkey,
+                        deletionEvent.CreatedAt,
+                )
+                if err != nil {
+                        return fmt.Errorf("failed to record deletion: %w", err)
+                }
+        }
+
+        return tx.Commit()
+}