feat: add library comparison benchmarks with build tag isolation

Add comprehensive benchmarks comparing NWIO against nbd-wtf/go-nostr and
fiatjaf.com/nostr across event operations, signing, verification, and filtering.

Use build tag 'benchcmp' to prevent competitor libraries from polluting module
dependencies - they're only downloaded when explicitly running comparison tests.

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+# Benchmark Results Summary
+
+Comparison of three Go Nostr libraries: **NWIO** (northwest.io/nostr), **NBD** (github.com/nbd-wtf/go-nostr), and **Fiat** (fiatjaf.com/nostr)
+
+## Quick Performance Overview
+
+### 🏆 Winners by Category
+
+| Operation | Winner | Performance |
+|-----------|--------|-------------|
+| **Event Unmarshal** | NWIO/Fiat | ~2.5 µs (tied) |
+| **Event Marshal** | NWIO | 1.79 µs (fastest, least memory) |
+| **Event Serialize** | NBD | 129 ns (3x faster than NWIO) |
+| **Compute ID** | Fiat | 276 ns (2x faster than NWIO) |
+| **Generate Key** | NBD | 470 ns (80x faster!) |
+| **Event Sign** | NBD/Fiat | ~59 µs (2x faster than NWIO) |
+| **Event Verify** | NWIO | 99.7 µs (slightly faster) |
+| **Filter Match** | NWIO | 7.1 ns (2x faster than Fiat) |
+| **Filter Complex** | NWIO | 30.9 ns (fastest) |
+
+## Detailed Results
+
+### Event Unmarshaling (JSON → Event)
+```
+NWIO:  2,541 ns/op    888 B/op    17 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST, LOW MEMORY
+NBD:   2,832 ns/op    944 B/op    13 allocs/op
+Fiat:  2,545 ns/op    752 B/op    10 allocs/op  ⭐ LEAST MEMORY
+```
+**Analysis**: All three are very competitive. NWIO and Fiat are effectively tied. Fiat uses least memory.
+
+### Event Marshaling (Event → JSON)
+```
+NWIO:  1,790 ns/op  1,010 B/op     3 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST, LEAST ALLOCS
+NBD:   1,819 ns/op  1,500 B/op     6 allocs/op
+Fiat:  1,971 ns/op  2,254 B/op    13 allocs/op
+```
+**Analysis**: NWIO is fastest with minimal allocations. Significant memory advantage over competitors.
+
+### Event Serialization (for ID computation)
+```
+NWIO:  391 ns/op    360 B/op    7 allocs/op
+NBD:   129 ns/op    208 B/op    2 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST, 3x faster
+Fiat:  161 ns/op    400 B/op    3 allocs/op
+```
+**Analysis**: NBD dominates here with optimized serialization. NWIO has room for improvement.
+
+### Event ID Computation
+```
+NWIO:  608 ns/op    488 B/op    9 allocs/op
+NBD:   302 ns/op    336 B/op    4 allocs/op
+Fiat:  276 ns/op    400 B/op    3 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST
+```
+**Analysis**: NBD and Fiat are 2x faster. NWIO should optimize ID computation path.
+
+### Key Generation
+```
+NWIO:  37,689 ns/op    208 B/op    4 allocs/op
+NBD:     470 ns/op    369 B/op    8 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST, 80x faster!
+Fiat:  25,375 ns/op    272 B/op    5 allocs/op
+```
+**Analysis**: ⚠️ NWIO is significantly slower. NBD appears to use a different key generation strategy. This is the biggest performance gap.
+
+### Event Signing
+```
+NWIO:  129,854 ns/op  2,363 B/op   42 allocs/op
+NBD:    59,069 ns/op  2,112 B/op   35 allocs/op  ⭐ TIED FASTEST
+Fiat:   58,572 ns/op  1,760 B/op   29 allocs/op  ⭐ LEAST MEMORY
+```
+**Analysis**: NBD and Fiat are 2x faster. NWIO has more allocations in signing path.
+
+### Event Verification
+```
+NWIO:   99,744 ns/op    953 B/op   19 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST
+NBD:   105,995 ns/op    624 B/op   11 allocs/op  ⭐ LEAST MEMORY
+Fiat:  103,744 ns/op    640 B/op    9 allocs/op
+```
+**Analysis**: NWIO is slightly faster (6% faster than others). Very competitive across all three.
+
+### Filter Matching (Simple)
+```
+NWIO:  7.1 ns/op    0 B/op    0 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST, 2x faster
+NBD:  10.8 ns/op    0 B/op    0 allocs/op
+Fiat: 16.4 ns/op    0 B/op    0 allocs/op
+```
+**Analysis**: NWIO excels at filter matching! Zero allocations across all libraries.
+
+### Filter Matching (Complex with Tags)
+```
+NWIO:  30.9 ns/op    0 B/op    0 allocs/op  ⭐ FASTEST
+NBD:   33.4 ns/op    0 B/op    0 allocs/op
+Fiat:  42.6 ns/op    0 B/op    0 allocs/op
+```
+**Analysis**: NWIO maintains lead in complex filters. Important for relay implementations.
+
+## Optimization Opportunities for NWIO
+
+### High Priority 🔴
+1. **Key Generation** - 80x slower than NBD
+   - Current: 37.7 µs
+   - Target: ~500 ns (similar to NBD)
+   - Impact: Critical for client applications
+
+2. **Event Signing** - 2x slower than competitors
+   - Current: 130 µs
+   - Target: ~60 µs (match NBD/Fiat)
+   - Impact: High for client applications
+
+### Medium Priority 🟡
+3. **Event Serialization** - 3x slower than NBD
+   - Current: 391 ns
+   - Target: ~130 ns (match NBD)
+   - Impact: Used in ID computation
+
+4. **ID Computation** - 2x slower than competitors
+   - Current: 608 ns
+   - Target: ~280 ns (match Fiat)
+   - Impact: Affects every event processing
+
+## Current Strengths of NWIO ✅
+
+1. **Filter Matching** - 2x faster than Fiat, fastest overall
+2. **Event Marshaling** - Fastest with minimal allocations
+3. **Event Verification** - Slightly faster than competitors
+4. **Memory Efficiency** - Competitive or better in most operations
+
+## Recommendations
+
+### For Relay Implementations
+- **NWIO excels**: Best filter matching performance
+- All three are competitive for event parsing/verification
+
+### For Client Implementations
+- **NBD/Fiat preferred**: Much faster key generation and signing
+- NWIO needs optimization in crypto operations
+
+### Overall Assessment
+- **NWIO**: Best for relay/filter-heavy workloads
+- **NBD**: Most balanced, excellent crypto performance
+- **Fiat**: Good all-around, lowest memory in some operations
+
+## Running Your Own Benchmarks
+
+```bash
+# Run all benchmarks
+./run_benchmarks.sh
+
+# Compare specific operations
+go test -bench=BenchmarkEventSign -benchmem comparison_bench_test.go
+go test -bench=BenchmarkFilterMatch -benchmem comparison_bench_test.go
+
+# Statistical analysis with benchstat
+go test -bench=. -count=10 comparison_bench_test.go > results.txt
+benchstat results.txt
+```